Sometimes it's time to take matters into your own hands and so that's what I did! The Fleshlight - shaped like a huge flashlight, The Fleshlight has soft, flesh like inserts (which are interchangeable) that give you a fairly portable and pretty discrete sex like experience. When you purchase The Fleshlight you get a choice of liners - I got both the STU (stamina training unit) and the "speed bump" but there's also a "wonder wave" and "super tight" version. The liners are designed to be heated with warm water before using to make them feel more flesh like. A little skeptical when I first got it, it took only a few uses to make a believer out of me. The Fleshlight provides a nice and often intense alternative to just spankin' the ole monkey with a sensation that is in the same universe as 'the real thing'. One downside to The Fleshlight was that I found that the interior liner stretched out a little too much while I used it. If I were to order it again I'd probably opt for the tighter version. One of the best things about The Fleshlight was just how well it cleans up, an essential aspect for this kind of toy. All in all The Fleshlight is absolutely worth picking up.

Like all toys, this wouldn't replace normal solo play, but The Fleshlight provides an extremely enjoyable treat for when you want a little something more.